Imagine if members of your community joined together, encouraged one another to foster and adopt, and created a network of support for these families. We would see more children with families of their own, richer family life, more engaged communities—and a better society.
The Second Nurture Model
When you arrive for a 2N Cohort gathering, members of the Host Community (usually a synagogue) will welcome you and your family. They serve the meal they prepared, then everyone sits together to eat and chat. Over time, these become the people who celebrate your joyful moments, check in during difficult weeks, and share in the responsibility of supporting your family.
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After everyone has had a chance to eat and get to know one another, children head to their own supervised activities while caregivers meet with Second Nurture's trained Family Support Specialist.
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In the caregiver group, you can be honest about what life is really like with people who understand. There's no judgment and no pressure to share. We share, listen, soothe, problem-solve and sometimes laugh about things that would make other parents stare—but here, everyone understands.
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You can also let your Family Support Specialist know what kind of support would be helpful, whether that's meals, childcare, tutoring, transportation, or simply someone to check in. She works with Host Community volunteers, families, and 2N staff so everyone stays connected, support is coordinated, and relationships continue.
No. Second Nurture will never charge our families for anything.
We want the kids to come! There are supervised kids' activities with wonderful volunteers running the activities.
That's exactly why we're here.
Of course. But we hope you will find your 2N family and want to be a regular.
2N surrounds your family with lasting relationships, practical support, and a community that stays connected.
Reach out to us. We'll help connect you with online support and we can discuss bringing to 2N to a community near you!
How It Works
Cohort
Whether a family is just curious about fostering and adoption or has already taken the plunge, nothing replaces the wisdom, comfort, and “I-see-you” sense of community than meeting others on the same path. Each month, Second Nurture helps families connect by facilitating a bagel brunch, where they share experiences and meet expert guests on everything from hair care to how to talk with kids about their birth families to trauma-informed yoga, and so much more. Between meetings, families keep up with each other via a private group Facebook page. A cohort is a safe, supportive place to navigate the journey through foster care and adoption.
Networks of Support
When members of the cohort face a challenge, they turn to each other first for expertise and support, developing a trusted group of volunteer experts over time. When a need can’t be met by the cohort members, the need is made known to their wider community. When needed, Second Nurture steps in to connect members with county agencies or private organizations that can provide the necessary resources and expertise like therapeutic services, diversity training, cultural opportunities, and more.
Community Culture
Second Nurture works with communities to develop resources that integrate fostering and adoption into communal traditions, rituals and events across a range of settings so that all families feel seen and held by the larger community.
By normalizing foster care and adoption as common, celebrated ways of growing a family and facilitating a network of trust, companionship, and support among foster and adoptive families, Second Nurture builds communities that a.) hold adoption and fostering as essential values b.) help foster and adoptive families see themselves reflected in the identity of the community.
